“Kaay Ray’s Philosophy Of Life & Abandonment”
& Why I Respectfully Disagree.
I once was the captive audience of Kaay Ray who became an anthropologist simply by reading a book a buddy of hers introduced to her, for a brief period, meaning I was in a position to converse with, at which time while in that vulnerable position she took the opportunity to express her belief based on this new age psycho analytic self help book someone she really looked up to had given her to read.
She mentioned she agreed wholeheartedly with the author. and shares that point of view and believes that any misfortune in life that befalls one, is entirely one’s fault due to the decisions one made and therefore a consequence of the Universe and deserves the punishment.
Simply put, any situation a person finds themselves in is due to the path they chose to follow. and she refuse to render assistance for that reason, because that situation cannot be attributed to her ability in any way to influence that outcome. Thus implying “one has made ones bed, now lay in it”
Suffice to say as far as I can gather, she does not possess the mentality of a nurse, and to prove it she once observed an injured puppy lying on the side of the road near to her home, and decided not to help the poor distressed animal for that reason. According to her, it was the puppy’s own fault, and the puppy is responsible for it’s own illness, and left it to continue suffering on the side of the road, stating the puppy’s ailment was due entirely by the path it chose to take. Some may say that’s justifiable reasoning and therefore should even be encouraged to spread, and let’s only to celebrate the ones sporting good health, shiny coats and all, etc. long story short I ended that relationship promptly, I found it difficult to sustain having been exposed to such a brutal and weird point of view, I was appalled and emotionally upset by the knowledge this conversation lmpressed upon me.
Look dear lady, your logic to me is like a broken and ABANDONED key in an old rusty lock, just cannot be used for it’s intended purpose. So good riddance you damned jack ass.
But I would be willing to sit beside you again should you change your mind or give me the impression that you have abandoned your so called impressionistic psychoanalytic and controlling behavior and be friends with you.
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